Tuesday, May 17, 2011

'Sex and the City' gone wrong, right and haywire!!!

This is just what i needed! Siggghhhh....
Well, after a very uncomfortable discussion with someone who at one point had held a whole lot of emotion and importance in your life, u would think it is the right time to indulge yourself into an episode of 'Sex and the City...Four single women reassuring each other they were incredible all by themselves, and thats all they needed! Well seems like it wasn't all that i needed, for once. Well the episode talked about all things i dint want to hear about, at least from Sex and the City..Souls, and mates and all that jazz (well the next episode had a jazz musician too).
All that conversation about between independent, strong, successful women about one person who makes your life worth its while, another prince charming story...Well for once, i dint want to hear that story of happily ever after and Prince Charmings on their snow white horses. Anyway, hence the second episode followed. I took a break from my desire to pen (in this case key) down my feelings and indulged myself in the second episode. Well now, this was about boundaries, non-boundaries, defining and non-defining relationships...
Did i need that? This i cant quite be sure about...

Well, Carrie once wisely says Eskimos had a hundred words for Ice...we from Ice-age have come up with about a hundred thousand different terms for relationships. Each have their own boundaries, non-boundaries, each has a definition of its own, each has an essence and a KRA (key responsibility areas!!) of its own. Sometimes, on a street that u've walked down so often, in coffee shops that you have frequented, in restaurants u've eaten, at clubs u've partied, in those alleys u know so well, this need for label corners you, almost encumbers you. Mostly i've seen the need and mostly i've wanted them...but mostly they've brought too much baggage with them.

Hence like Carrie says, 'Maybe, it is one relationship, that defines another!'

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